Accepting your flaws.

I believe it’s esstential to accept your imperfections. This summer I took my time to actually accept my flaws. I realised we try to perfect things that shouldn’t matter as much as it does, and in all honesty the opinions of others shouldn’t matter either. we really doubt certain aspects of ourselves because we are overthinking about how others may judge us.

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REALISE..

  • Its a common thing we all deal with.
  • If you stopped Stressing about your flaws you would have more time to focus on important things or even just enjoying yourself at that moment in time than worrying about what others think.
  • People don’t see your imperfections until you tell them and majority of the time they don’t have the same opinion as you “It looks fine”.
  • Once you accept your imperfections no one can use it against you.

I feel the key to accepting your flaws is to realise that judegments can only hold value to your lives if you allow it.

 

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NATURAL HAIR TAG!

1. When did you start taking better care of your hair?

I would say around May 2017 I actually started caring for my hair. I’m very lazy when it comes to hair so at first it was challenging but now it’s the norm.

2. What’s your two favourite natural hair products?

Only last month I came across Twisted Sista Intensive Leave In Conditioner, which I feel has transformed my hair with moisture frizzyness and ability to detangle. My hair doesn’t normally feel juicy but this defintely did the job.

Also oliver oil conditioner the main conditioner I have been using on my hair to detangle since DAY 1. Mummy knew what she was doing.

3. What’s you’re ultimate hair goal?

Just to have strong healthy consistent moistured hair with no damaged ends.

4. What’s your favourite part of your hair regimen?

Mmm well this is difficult … ooo yeah the end reults of having clean fresh detangled hair to play with.

5. Which do you prefer healthy or length ?

Healthy any day because my hair has no problem with length or growing even longer, and without health it will just look like a dead long straw.

6. Most annoying part of your regimen?

Detangling!!!

7. Oils or butter?

I’m starting to really love my oils.. It’s just annoying when it over flows from my hands.

8. Wigs or weave?

I prefer weave due to not feeling like im wearing a hat all day but wigs protect your whole head and you don’t have to worry about a leave out.

9. What’s your take on growth aid?

I have always wondered if it would work for me but I just haven’t bothered to buy any. I see no harm with it and researching about it, it seems to be successful.

10. What’s your take on salons?

Salons are cute, I mean you know some are but overall they don’t know how to handle my wild hair and they are so expensive. I don’t really trust people in my hair so I prefer to learn how to do my own, It’s doesn’t have to be perfect just presentable.

11. What products you think is underrated?

Gummy styling wax is underrated, I dont think a lot of people know or have even bothered to try it but it’s one of the best to lay my edges and slick my hair.

12. What do you dislike about your hair?

The dryness of my hair is what I dislike because certain products doesn’t help or even sustain in my hair. I find it difficult to have it consistently moistured.

WAYS TO WIN YOURSELF BACK.

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At times going through life we lose vision in who we are… well I know I have before. When you are happy, confident and truly love yourself you don’t bother with unnecessary stress from others and yourself.

These are a few tips I have learnt to make you love yourself again.

  • Value and respect how special you are – No one can ever be or become you, You are the only one who think your thoughts the way you think them and look the way you do. That’s kind of a big deal!
  • Drown in assurance. – Rewire your brain to think differently. Having negative thoughts will only weigh you down and stop you from being someone big in life.When you mentally rehearse your new habits, you strengthen your ability to create them in your life.

(Write down a list of things you need to hear the most and say it through out the day, in your head, out loud.. anytime)

E.g I deserve and will receive all the good that life has to offer me.

I am a unique loving beautiful person.

  • Do things what you love – Find time to do what u want, or change something that is not making u happy. e.g Find a new job, go on holiday, buy new shoes… It doesn’t matter how big or small it is as long as it makes you personally happy that’s all that matters.
  • Let the love in – Receive compliments gracefully with a simple thank you. Say nice things about your body, dress it up, take it out, give it hot baths and massages, Move it, stretch it and hydrate it. The better our bodies feel the happier and more productive we are.

So start now, don’t let anyone or anything hold you back love yourself! ❤️💁🏽